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First things first, let's get that spaghetti squash ready. Halve it lengthwise, scoop out the seeds, and brush the cut sides with a little olive oil. Season with salt and pepper. Place cut-side down on a baking sheet and roast at 400°F (200°C) for about 30-40 minutes, or until fork-tender. This is where I always forget to season it properly, so don't be like me! You want it tender enough for the strands to pull away easily. The kitchen starts to smell faintly sweet and earthy, a promise of good things to come.
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While the squash is roasting, melt a couple of tablespoons of butter in a saucepan over medium heat. Add your finely diced onion and cook until it's softened and translucent, about 5-7 minutes. Then, stir in the minced garlic and cook for just another minute until fragrant. Don't let it brown, or it'll get bitter! I’ve burned garlic a few times, and trust me, it’s a sad smell. Keep an eye on it!
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Now for the creamy magic! Sprinkle the flour over the softened onions and garlic, stirring constantly for about 1-2 minutes to cook out that raw flour taste. This is your roux, the base of our sauce. Slowly, gradually, whisk in the whole milk, a little at a time, making sure there are no lumps. Keep whisking until the sauce thickens and coats the back of a spoon. It feels like a small victory when it gets perfectly smooth!
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Remove the béchamel from the heat and stir in most of your shredded sharp cheddar and Gruyère. Reserve a little for the topping, because, why not? Stir until the cheeses are completely melted and the sauce is wonderfully smooth and glossy. Season with salt, black pepper, and that tiny pinch of nutmeg. Taste it! This is your chance to adjust. I always taste here, sometimes adding a little more salt than I intended, oops!
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Once the spaghetti squash is roasted and cool enough to handle, use a fork to scrape out the strands into a large bowl. Honestly, this part is so satisfying! Pour the cheesy béchamel sauce over the squash strands and gently toss to combine everything. Make sure every strand is coated in that luscious sauce. Transfer this mixture to a greased 9x13 inch baking dish. Don't worry if it looks a little messy, that's real cooking!
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Sprinkle the remaining shredded cheeses and the Panko breadcrumbs evenly over the top of the Cheesy Spaghetti Squash Au Gratin. Pop it back into the oven at 375°F (190°C) for 20-25 minutes, or until the top is golden brown and bubbly. The smell that fills your kitchen at this point? Pure bliss! Let it rest for a few minutes before serving, then garnish with fresh parsley. It'll be piping hot and so comforting.