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Grab a big pot and fill it with water. Don't forget to generously salt the water – it's your only chance to season the pasta itself! Bring it to a rolling boil, then toss in your elbow macaroni. Cook it according to package directions until it's al dente, which means it still has a little bite. I always set a timer, because I've definitely overcooked pasta into mush before, and nobody wants that. Once it’s ready, drain it well and set it aside. Don't rinse it, we want that starchy goodness for our sauce!
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In a separate, heavy-bottomed saucepan, melt your butter over medium heat. Keep a close eye on it; we don't want burnt butter, just a lovely golden pool. Once melted, sprinkle in the all-purpose flour. Whisk it constantly for about 1-2 minutes until it forms a smooth paste and smells a little nutty. This is your roux, the magical base for our creamy sauce. Honestly, this step feels like real cooking, and it's where the kitchen starts to smell amazing, like something truly comforting is brewing.
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Slowly, oh so slowly, pour in the whole milk, whisking continuously. This is crucial for a lump-free sauce! If you dump it all in at once, you’ll have a lumpy mess, and trust me, I've been there. Keep whisking as the sauce thickens and comes to a gentle simmer. It should coat the back of a spoon. You'll see it transform from thin liquid to a beautiful, velvety base right before your eyes – it’s pretty satisfying, actually!
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Reduce the heat to low. Now for the fun part: add your grated sharp cheddar and Gruyère cheeses, along with the Dijon mustard and that tiny pinch of nutmeg. Stir, stir, stir until all the cheese is completely melted and the sauce is smooth and glossy. This is where the magic happens, and the aroma? Oh my goodness, it’s pure cheesy heaven! Taste it here and adjust your salt and pepper. Remember, the cheese brings its own saltiness, so go easy at first.
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Once your cheese sauce is perfectly smooth and seasoned, gently fold in the cooked and drained macaroni. Stir until every single elbow is coated in that luscious, creamy, cheesy goodness. You want total macaroni saturation! I usually do this right in the saucepan, it keeps everything warm. Don't overmix, just enough to combine everything lovingly. Sometimes, I'll even add a splash more milk here if it looks a little too thick after the pasta goes in; it's all about feel!
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Serve your creamy stovetop macaroni cheese immediately! Seriously, it's at its absolute best right off the stove, while it's still gloriously hot and gooey. I love to serve it in big, warm bowls, maybe with a sprinkle of fresh parsley for a little color, or a dash of extra black pepper. The texture should be smooth, the cheese pull amazing, and the taste? Pure comfort. This is the moment you realize all those little kitchen efforts were totally worth it.